Wednesday, 26 October 2011

Winner Vs Loser

I was at the Hulu bernam police station last Saturday to lodge a police report on some mishap and getting a little bored waiting for the Corporal drafting the report, I went to their so-called reading corner and found a magazine called Integrity. Though not the latest issue, I found something interesting and meaningful which describes well between a Winner and a Loser. This is something I must share...

The Winner is always part of the answer
The Loser is always part of the problem.
The Winner always has a program
The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says, "Let me do it for you"
The Loser says, "That is not my job."
The Winner sees an answer for every problem
The Losers sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says, "It may be difficult but it is possible"
The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, "I was wrong"
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says, "It wasn't me."
A Winner makes commitment
A Loser makes promises.
Winners have dreams
Losers have schemes.
Winners say, "I must do something"
Losers say, "Something must be done."
Winners are part of the team
Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain
Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities
Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win-win
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners see the potential
Losers see the past.
Winners are like a thermostat
Losers are like  thermometers.
 Winners choose what they say
Losers say what they choose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words
Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy on empathy: 
"Don't do to others what you would not want them to do to you"
 Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen
Losers let it happen.

Let us all work towards becoming a Winner. If you stop to think if you should or should not, you have just qualified yourself  as a plain Loser ... :)


  1. is it anything serious Mam?
    i hope not..
    we all can be a winner if we want too~

  2. by the end, the winner always succeeded

  3. Nothing serious Fatiha. Tq for asking. So, do you want to be a winner?

  4. of course i want to be a winner~
    i will...

  5. This article is so inspiring and I love it! ^^ I agree the statement which also means "Do to others as you would have them do to you"(which is my favourite slogan) XD Thanks for sharing!! =D Have a nice day.